Plz help me.Do I have A chance??

Well 3 0r 4 years ago back in high school. a classmate of mine (one i didn't really like) came up to me and gave me this long story about this guy in my neighbourhood that had this huge crush on me.He paid my classmate money to tell me that and to give me a love letter. Now cuz i kinda hate that classmate, i can't believe anything he says, and i somehow never saw that "neighbourhood guy" b4, i didn't take the letter and said i don't give a ****! Months later i see the "neighbourhood guy"- his name is D. and he is sooo very attractive, i like seeing him alot.But like he passes me straight and acted like i don't exist. However,we ended up on the same bus ride home once and he was all gentleman like and all opening the door for me and stuff.after that i hardly saw him around.Now last yr I started hanging out with this guy who really likes me and stuff but bcuz of our age difference i find it hard to pursue a relationship with him. and then I find out that the guy and D are really close friends, like brothers and ****鈥o like after that I kind of cooled out on hanging with the guy. However recently like in August, the guy comes back confessing his feelings and stuff and well we started going out. Not dating to me, he always said lets hang out cuz I told him I didn鈥檛 feel the same,lets be friends and the fact that D is like his brother, D is always around鈥 can鈥檛 help not stare at him and fantasize about him鈥ut he never speaks to me, he ignores me every time and don鈥檛 start conversations with me鈥e is a very respectful guy and he seems the type that will never cross a friend for a girl. But his Friend and I are just friends and there will never be anything more. More over D is the one I want,but he is so quiet and keeps to hisself and won鈥檛 talk to me鈥?How do I get him too? I tried dancing with him once at a party and he was like 鈥淣O, I don鈥檛 want u by me, go ask the other guy to dance and u talk too much鈥?(which I don鈥檛) But when we鈥檙e out, he still seem to be going out of his way opening doors for me and offering me stuff.Then he acts really arrogant, he has no gf and according to his friends all he does is fu*k girls he doesn鈥檛 check them. I feel so confused, I just want to throw myself at him鈥e is a Scorpio and I鈥檓 a Leo,we鈥檙e both 19( I don鈥檛 know if that can help,I heard signs have a part to play sometime)What advise do you guys have out there for me??

horoscopes aside, i really think it is possible that he is interested, (that would explain the gentleman behaviour 1 min and then arrogant the next - guys get confused like that when they have a crush on a girl and more so when they cannot act on this crush) but like u said, if he knows that his friend really likes ya, he probably cant do much about it.

That could also be why he trys not to talk to you too much becoz he wouldn't want his mate to think that he is "grass cutting" him

Even if u are really good friends with someone who is also really good friends with your crush (hope that makes sense) my advice would be to kinda cut back on hanging out with them for a couple of months. Things wont happen for ya the way you want them to if the situation continues the way it currently is. Then a couple of months down the track, if u can kinda casually bump into the one you like, just try talkin to him as a friend first, then the next time, once a friendship has been established naturally, you could slowely try to sneak in some flirting and if it seems like he is flirting a lil too then take it from there.

Also, if the other dude likes you but you dont feel the same way back, you have to do something about that! You'll never get his friend while this guy really likes ya coz u dont know how they talk and stuff when u arent there, the 1 that likes you may be making it clear to the one that you like that YOU ARE HIS. My advice on how to overcome this, bring another girl into the picture, coz if you can get your crushes mate to date someone else then anything that happens between yo and your crush from there on in is fair game (as far as boys are concerned.)

good luck and hope this helps

Well, I think you should tell him that his friend and you have no emotional connection and that he needs to act normal because he seems like a complete "show off." I mean, if a guy did that for me, it would completely piss me off. Maybe you should just stop thinking about him and ,if he opens another door for you, say,"oh,its fine. Im capable of opening doors for myself. Im not a child and I have hands. Thank you, anyway." and then do it yourself. I also think that just because he opens doors for you, doesnt necessarally mean that he likes you. He probably could have a girlfriend, also. Either that or hes just jealous of you, for some weird reason. A guy like that is not one you should be with. Believe me. I tryed to be with the guy too and it turned out that he wasnt even into me. He told me,"youre not my type." Whatever "type" means.