When looking at Venus/Pluto conjunction?

Do I want to match his Pluto with my Venus? or his Venus with my Pluto? Like, you want us to have my Pluto/Pisces and his Venus/Pisces, or does it have to be my Venus/Pisces his Pluto/Pisces? I hope that's not confusing you I couldn't think of an easier way to write it out.

Pluto is not the most favorable influence to bring into a relationship.

Thankfully, Pluto is not a 'personal' planet, it has more of a generational influence.

Look to Venus/mars aspects for attraction, venus/venus for mutual appreciation, venus/moon or moon/moon for emotional understanding.

House placements of one's venus in the others chart would show the ability to sustain a long term relationship. Look for 4th or 7th house.

You can do a compatibility or synastry chart at http://www.astro.com

There are free reports available on this website under 'free horoscopes' for interpretative features.

Good Luck!

Pluto/Venus conjunctions are not favorable in a relationship. It will mean a lot of passion and a lot of hot sex. The down side to this it also means physical rape. Squares with these 2 planets is what I call a gentle rape, not as heated as a conjunction, but sometimes it can mean mind rape. Trines and sextiles are far better for a relationships, some of the passion is still there, but the physical and mental rape is not present. This only has to do with these 2 planets, the rest of the chart has to be looked at for a complete compatibility profile.