I'm an Aries woman, and he's a Sag we're supposed to be "soul mates" , if that is so why do we always conflict

even soul mates argue at some point. healthy and logical argument helps to clear the vague points in a relationship.

Do you really BELIEVE in this stuff.

You need some water/

Probably because that kind of reasoning isn't very accurate or rational

Actually being always conflicting is part of a relationship (okay, I should not say this because I don't have much experience in love...).

I used to like a Sag guy (I'm Aries as well) but after a long friendship, we actually contradict each other. I also used to believe that an Aries woman and a Sag guy are "soul mates" but this didn't happen. But of course, that time I was such a childish person.

I suggest that you reflect yourself and figure out your weaknesses. There must be something you have that he doesn't like, like your behavior, attitude, personality, appearance, words.... you can also ask him about it if you can't see them for yourself.

Although this tips clearly cannot help you much due to my lack of love experience, but at least it can contribute to something. =^_^=

Perhaps because astrology is fallacious, "soul mates" is fiction, and conflict is just a normal part of life?

Just a thought.
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You don't have to base only on your sun signs. You have to look at the rising sign, and specially, where is the moon and where is Venus, in both natal charts. And obviously, there's the background education of each one of you.

Aries & Sagittarius
Two Fire signs soar with shared exaltation towards ambitious ideals and adventure. The Sagittarian's candor puts the Ram in his or her place if necessary, and communication flows readily between the two, limiting the damage from conflict. Energetic and intimate activity is part of their daily routine. These two individuals have energy to burn, and an appetite for mutual love and seduction. No clouds on the horizon as long as each accepts that the other will make no compromise...

Well I鈥檓 an Aries Lady very much in Love with a Sagittarius Man and what I learned that he really couldn't stand was that I couldn鈥檛 trust him and give him the freedom he needs but now I learned that he really loves me and if I want it to work I have to live by a few words if you put trust in the relationship you get trust you put love you get love you put time you get time you put lies you get lies and so on. Can't let him get away so I decided to loosen up and change for the better to save us not the world.