Scorpio male saying those three little words!?

How long does it take for a scorpio male to say i love u...
if they ever say it that is!
Do they like it when the woman initiates it first or would they rather...
How do u know they love u- mine does things (takes care of me) through actions but RARELY says anything regarding love and i have mentioned it to him and hes just clueless!!

I have been with my Scorpio and we both didn't say "I Love You" until we both felt comfortable. So that took about 6 months we both were getting out of horrible marriages to begin with but now life is great! The only things with him is that he tends not to say much when something is bugging him. So i need to get it out of him. But he is a great lover!!! I think your guys loves you it sounds like it anyway.
Best of luck.

he may very much like you or feel in love w you... but i think scorpios know what real love is and when he says it then it will be very honest and thorough... he's not going to say it to gain favor or just b/c... he'll say it when it is appropriate, authentic and perfect... thats a good sign if you are hoping that he will commit to you traditionally- thats pretty much what you should be listening for...

i am a fellow scorpio male..i think he's a little nervous about saying it cuz you might think he's moving to fast or dont feel the same way ..it's pretty hard to say those three words to someone.. the first time i said i love you to my girlfriend,i was in her room we were both laying down on her bed talking, laughing then i laid on my stomach and she wrote on my back I LOVE YOU with her finger then i tured around and said it..even though she wrote it..I said it first.. and we haven't stoppped saying it ever since..i suggest you let it flow naturally if not give him a little push like my girlfriend did for me...i hope i' ve been a good help so good luck and happy holidays..peace

I would be wary of generalizing too much. My own experience is colored by dealing with an emotionally abusive fellow Scorpio for 20 years. I tried to get away from him many a time and it has taken all my will and strength. At times he has become physically abusive with me--the times that I tried to pull away. He has made threats against me, which will backfire against him bigtime.
When things were going his way, he was the model of love, love, love...I love you, I love you, every day and I never felt so loved. But it became clear that love to him meant he owned me and that I owed him.
So what I am trying to say. Any man can say he loves you. Look at his actions most of all. Love to one person doesn't mean the same to another person. This person felt he owned me and after physically attacking me again, he is still calling to say "I love you" and I am watching out for my physical safety at this point.
And if he doesn't say " love you" right away don't worry. As long as he is treating you with respect and you feel cared about that is most important. You are lucky to find a good one.
Any good will and protective energy that anyone wants to send me, or pray for me would be very appreciated and come back to you when you need it.

IT TAKES A LOT OF TIME SO HE CAN SAY I LOVE YOU I GUESS THE GIRL SHOULD STARTED FIRST. BUT DONT JUST SAY IT TO GET SOME THING BACK U KNOW SAY IT CAUSE U MEAN IT. W/ MY X I HAD A PROBLEM SAYING IT WHEN MY MOTHER WAS AROUND IT WAS SO SO SO IMBERASSING! THEN MY X GOT PISSED AND TOLD ME Y CANT U SAY IT IN FRONT OF UR MOM SHE WOULD BE MAD. I TOLD HER BECAUSE I DON'T FEEL COMFORTABLE. SHES LIKE ALRIGHT! THEN ONE DAY I MANED UP AND TOLD HER INFRONT OF MY MOM I WAS ONLY 16 AND SHE GOT VERY HAPPY. SEE I SAID IT CAUSE I FELT CONFORTABLE. INFRONT OF MY MOM. THEN ME AND HER BROKE UP. NOW IM TALKING TO THIS CHICK AND SHE'S FRIENDS WITH PRIVALAGES AND SHE TOLD ME SHE LIKES ME A LOT BUT I DONT ITS SOME ONE TO MESS AROUND WITH WHEN U GET RODGER MAHONEY! LOL R BETWEEN THE "O" AND THE "N" AND SHE TRIED ATTACHING ME BY SAYING I LOVE U. U KNOW I MEAN I DO THINK SHE LIKES ME BUT NOT LOVE THAT FAST AND I JUST PRETENDED I DIDN'T HEAR HER OVER THE PHONE AND I JUST CLICKED. BY THE WAY IM A SCORPIO. WELL MAYBE HE LIKES U AS A FRIEND OR MAYBE HES UNSURE ABOUT HOW U FEEL. LET HIM KNOW STRAIGHT OUT DONT BEAT AROUND THE BUSH

I wouldn't know... I say "I love you" all the time (myself being a Scorpio sun female of course...) to anything and anyone. Then again, I don't add a lot of value to those words.

I want to spend the rest of my life with you and I'm in love with you add a bit more to the value, because I don't tie down so easily. And those words never even left my mouth. Ever.

trust me when they say it they mean it!