Do cancerians even know what they want?

I'm a leo sun, capricorn ascendant who is extremely attracted to cancerians, but I always get the feeling that they have no idea what they want.

I dated one cancer I fell really hard for, and he seemed to lose all interest he had in me seemingly overnight. Changed his profile on the dating site where we met talking about how sexy and smart he is, and deleted his account a short time later.

Met another cancer guy who told me he has a good idea of what he wants. We have really good convos, suddenly he deletes me from his im list. I mail him asking if I said anything that upset him, he responds with no, whenever I get into the game I want to get out again, I guess I really don't know what I want.
I'm just backing off while they are in their shells. Has anyone else experienced this? Any suggestions?

From experience I honestly Think Most Cancer Sign Males do not know what they want. I've dated a lot of Cancer Sign Males and I believe men with the Cancer sign have to be The Most Complex of all Zodiac Signs because they fall in and out of Love so quickly, they're inclined to be a romantic daydreamer. I think a lot of females fall hard for Cancer Sign Men, I have so many times, but I always end up leaving the Cancer Male, its just to much for me sometimes, I hate to feel like I'm being taken for granted. When a Cancer Male become distant, its really not much anyone can do, you can either move on or wait around for them to come back when they feel like it. I suggest you just move on unless you have the time & patience to deal with a Cancer Sign Male.

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Everyone changes a bit depending on who they're with, and Cancers are particularly good at becoming what they think their companion wants. Being rather wishy-washy, they likely just changed their minds about complying.

Cancers like the illusion of control, whether or not they actually have it. As a whole the guys require more patience to deal with than I posses.

Honest opinions here? I had nothing but bad luck with the 2 cancers I dated, nothing but trouble. Great beginnings, but not much else. I married a Libra and have never been happier, and I'm a Sagittarius, btw.

Cancer is a cardinal water whereas Leo is a fixed fire sign.Frankly speaking,its a very good match!

I am a cancer and I have dated a few cancer men in my lifetime. I have found that these Cancer men seem to be the exact opposite as myself and they did not know what they wanted at all.

You might have said something to tick them off. It doesn't take much. I'm a Cancer with a Scorpio rising and I cut people off like that.

im a cancer, ive known this cancer guy for over 4 years and he definitely doesnt kno what he wants.. i got sick of him and stopped talking to him. and hes sooo clingy. total opposite of me). i get rid of ppl very quickly. wen somebody does the slightest thing to upset me in any kind of way i ll totally back off from that person and will never want to talk to them again, no matter how close we r. but idunno with cancer guys u have to be veryyy sweet and show them that ur emotional just like them, ...