---- To All Of My Fellow Arians..... -----?

do you have issues with authority? if so, how bad is it?

don't even get me started...I can't stand it when ppl tell me what to do * bares horns*

oh i always gets into trouble at my work coz i dont want sum1 to tell me what to do and im kinda always fighting with my boss coz i think im always right and shes wrong and if sum1 is so arrogant on me i showed them my horns and ready to fight back....

My husband is a ram and he likes to be in control (even though I usually am)

Yes I do!...I hate being told what to do when I already know what needs to be done....I like to be the first to know things as well...I never thought of it as an Arian trait so that is really interesting!...I'm non-assertive so I usually just clench my teeth & bare it...but it makes me seethe!...

I don't have issues with authority when it comes to bosses or police officers, etc. I do like to have a lot of control over my own life and tend to take the reigns in my relationships.

Yes! Since, I'm an arian too, I know what you mean! When people tell me what to do, I do the exact opposite and want them mad, ok lol, but it's true...

You probably don't want people telling you what to do because you want to control them, not the other way around. And I do get in trouble, a lot, especially with my family because well, I'm an Arian, I really can't do anything and frankly, I don't want to because I like what to control and lead things, it makes me feel good, lol. But yeah, I do get in a lot of trouble, most of the time...

I've been trying to overcome it but it gets me seriously angry when anybody tells me what to do. And sometimes purposely go out of my way to not do it JUST BECAUSE i was told to do it. It's bad but true and that's why I said, I'm trying to get over it because that is not a good trait to have. I don't think anyway

I can definitely have authority issues, but I've learned to surpress it a bit. Sometimes I just think, "Why isn't everyone seeing it my way, the right way?" And it takes me a while to realize that it's all a matter of perception.

gawd.. i tot im d only 1 who feel dat way. i do wat i feel like doing, i listen 2 only my parents ( d only authoritive figures in my life, tho sometimes i tend 2 rebel) i know wat im doing n it irritates me wen ppl question that n asked me 2 do otherwise. Aries r stuborn n vain. =P before all dat happen, i make sure that im d leader of any group project im in. its easier that way. another way of overcoming this problem is to take other ppl opinion, easier said than done ( i myself find it hard) but im tryin 2 be a better aries ^^

me too.