My crush is a Gemini and I am a Leo. Why such mixed signals?

My Gemini guy and I have been dating for a couple months, and we always have a wonderful time. But he never calls, doesn't even text. He works a lot, but so do I. When I call him, he seems happy to hear my voice, but our conversations are always very short. In person, we talk nonstop and we get along great. We don't fight but have little debates, which I love.

The thing is, when he's not right in front of me, I feel like I don't exist to him. When he's near me, he makes me feel like a million bucks. When I bring this up, he says that he's not ready to settle down in a relationship, so I told him we should stop hanging out all together, which he said he doesn't want to do, he just wants to keep dating and see where it takes us.

Should I leave him in 2007 and keep the good memories, or should I keep hanging out with him?

This isn't the first Gemini who has done this to me. I don't usually believe in the whol

This isn't the first Gemini who has done this to me. I don't usually believe in the whole zodiac thing, but this is just too coincidental...! >_<

Also, my best friend is a girl, a Gemini. We get along wonderfully.

What bothers me most is the "not ready for a relationship but i want to keep hanging out with you" bit. Is he just using me until something else comes along? I honestly think he really likes me and my company, and I don't think there's anyone else in his dating world right now. I just don't get him, and yeah, I'm defintely worried about the heartbreaker thing... I'm definitely starting to fall for him pretty hard, which doesn't happen often for me!

I'm a leo. I have had two overwhelming crushes/love affairs with two guys that have the same Birthday at the end of May.
They are great guys, but they don't provide the kind of affection we Leos need. We need to feel loyality appreciationg and love...Gemini's need to feel intellectually stimulated. They are great as friends and unrequited love but not for any type of relationship. Both of the Geminis I still have feelings for but in a way I've let them go because when it comes down to it

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I'm a gemini and we can be hard work. We are very elusive and unreliable. Geminis definately prefer being with people than having a relationship over the phone, the thing is when u are near us enjoying ur company is the only thing we care about but when you are away from us we can forget you quicker than any other sign-hence you feeling like u don't exist. Don't take it personally, its not that we don't care-we do and ur probably in the back of his mind. Its just that we are very easily distracted and always have so much going on which is probably why he don't call u so much.
It depends what u want really. If you want a serious comitted relationship he may not be 4 u, not yet any way. Don't try 2 give him ultimatums-the worst thing u can do is try 2 capture a gemini and cage us up. We are air signs remember, the social butterfly of the zodiac and we need space to flutter our wings. Geminis as u no are great fun and if thats what u want keep hanging out but if its breaking ur heart coz u want more than id suggest u move on and just stay mates.

Geminis are all over the place, moody, flaky, split personality(remember, their sign is that of the twins), and subject to change at any moment. They aren't compatible with anyone in the Zodiac, so they are difficult sign to rein in.

That being said, however, Gemini and Leo are a good match: Leo is proud, hard-working, loyal, and stable, giving Gemini the grounding that they need. That's all good an well, but nothing speaks louder or more clearly than the words "I'm not ready to settle down in a relationship right now." This is a shockingly straightforward answer for a Gemini, a sign that rarely knows what it wants.

Tread carefully, Geminis are heartbreakers.

He has said that he is not ready for a commitment, and you really need to believe him when he says this! Gemini men are notorious for not wanting to commit to any one person, place, or thing for very long. The inconsistancy and lack of consideration are enough to drive a woman mad. If you're looking for a good time, Gemini is your man. And ask yourself this: Are you high on the way that he makes you feel, or are you high on how you feel about yourself when he's with you? There was something about that Gemini male I dated that made me feel sexier and more beautiful and alive than I had ever felt---and it was just because he was next to me. He wasn't really giving me anything emotionally (obviously) but he was so much fun and so glitzy and social that I was excited just to be next to him.

It's both a blessing and a curse for men of this sign to have women so drawn to them. Women often fall hard only to have their hearts broken, and the Gem's resist any heavy emotional stuff so I would keep it very light. If you know he doesn't want any commitment with you, I wouldn't invest my heart. Be careful!

I just went through the same EXACT thing as you. This Gemini guy I was dating gave me this whole spill about how he thought we should just be friends because he wasn't ready for a relationship but yet he doesn't want to "lose" me. So I told him that that was cool as long as he was cool with me dating other guys. He actually got mad and told me that he wouldn't be out looking for other girls so I shouldn't be out looking for other guys. I told him that he was a selfish bastard because he didn't want to date me yet he didn't want me to move on either. He wanted to have his cake and eat it too. This was my first and will definitely be my last experience with a Gemini. They don't know what the hell they want and I honestly think that they'll never settle down because they're terrified of committment. They'd rather string a girl along and when things start to get serious they run with their tails between their legs. So after reading your question, I can see that this isn't just exclusive to the guy that I was dating. They all seem to have that in common. They would probably just like to date "casually" forever in they could. Plus, they like you one minute and then are not interested the next. The mind games are also a huge problem. Now that I don't pay any attention to this guy he's going out of his way to try and get me back but I don't have time for someone that's so indecisive and unstable.

you dont realy believe in astrology...well its time to because ive got some dirty info on gemini men your going to roll over in.

Gemini men are known for their unfaithfulness, to be honest i think these signs are the ones that cheat the most. i, myself know a gemini who when gets bored of someone tosses them out and moves on. Hes always tlaking about wanting new exprieincves, living life to the full, wanting to do something differnt, wanting to meet new people.

unfortunitly...this IS a gemini and you cant change him.. waht you also may not have known is leo and gemini are the best compatability in their charts. leos out there, and she satisfys geminis lust to want new horizons.
when you said "wasted" his time...and wanting him to come back, unfortunitly darling but hes probnerbly onto the next girl and over you. Geminis dont really tag on to people for very long becuase they get bored of em.

with the whole not ringing you or noticing you exist unless your with him..thats becuase geminis have full lives and your only ONE aspect of his, so when your gone its not like 50% of his life is gone and he can start thinking of you and wanitng to ring you, its more of 1% of his life is gone and he can proberbly find something that will replace that 1%. Honestly dont worry over a gemini, itsnot worth it.

I'm a leo with a gemini mother and believe me it's hard trying to understand them but...In a relationship(dating) I wouldnt recommend it. Leo's love being around people who will give us undying love and attention something that I believe gemini's lack.