Opposites signs question?

i have heard that we can sometimes fall back into our opposite signs. i am a scorpio, libra, sagittarius, so i would fall into taurus, aires, gemini. not all at once, but those aspects sometimes change. although i have noticed at times where this has occured, i was windering if someone could fill me in on anything more about this as well as why it occurs. any imput or links would be much appreciated, seeing as google hasnt resolved anything (for once). the reason i ask this, is until i found out about my moon sign libra, i never realized how unoppinionated i can be. i love to debate, yet am unprovoked unless called upon. a desire for a more impulsive and outgoing behavior is what im looking for, and by no means will anything get me there, but astrology has been known to point me into the direction about what i am not noticing about myself.

No we are what we are but we all have 12 houses that affect us..
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The opposite signs really do attract each other but not all opposites are known to form really good matches. Scorpio and Taurus have much more in common than any other opposite signs because both signs are fixed. I am a Taurus and my polar opposite is Scorpio and I do really feel attracted to this sign.

Every person has a lot of characteristics based on their birth chart and it really depends on all these characteristics of the person we do interact with. Two people can be meant to deal well with each other only based on their sun signs but if their birth charts are carefully examined it could happen that these people are not really so compatible in astrological point of view. But again if they possess good characters and are intelligent the factors as educational background, character, personality, individuality can prevail over the astrological compatibility.

About Scorpio and Taurus we are very similar in what we seek into our life, we are loyal, responsible, helpful but we obtain the same goals using different means. For example both Scorpio and Taurus want to reach level C, the Taurus will go trough A then B and reach C, while the Scorpio will go from Z all the way to all different routes and again reach route C. The Scorpio is much more complex and open for different options than the Taurus is but once both make their mind, nothing can change the direction they wish to undertake.

I think that almost all the opposite signs in the zodiac when interacting form union in which they compliment each other and balance each other weaknesses and strenghts but it is very difficult when they argue because they have the same power just they use different means. Actually I do really like my Scorpio friends and I believe they also like me because we are very respectful to each other and I hardly believe opposite signs can go into so serious misunderstandings just because one of them will withdraw or back off just because we can sense how to prevent conflicts.

About sites you require I think maybe you can see that site:

http://www.astrologyzine.com/what-is-my-...

One reader says we all have the 12 houses in ourselves. WRONG. We have a little of all the 12 signs, some more predominant than others.

As for you question, You may think you fallback in your opoisite signs. The planets and the everyday movement, whether retrograde or direct, will have an effect of moving you backwards or forwards.

If you have retrograde planets inyour chart, it doesn't mean that you will always move 3 steps forward and 2 steps backward.
When the actual planets finally move forward, so will you and this is the time to learn and profit from these experiences before these same planet fall retrograde. Retrograde planets make us repeat,go back, and they give us a chance to move forward also. Many students with a retrograde Mercury fail in school and redo their year often.

Moon in Libra gives the urge to have a nice charming surroundings , and in good taste especially at home. The women in the life will also be charming and artistic. I have a friend with Moon in Libra. He's a nice sweet guy but hides an iron fist; fond of music, the arts. etc..easily influenced and living for the moment as we say.