Good as friends, or better as lovers? What do you think? (Based on our birthdates only please, not on our sun signs).
Him
6/16/1983
12:30 PM
Havana, Cuba
Myself
7/6/1989
02:34 PM
El Cerro (nearest other city El Cobre), Cuba
If you're not an astrologer and so cannot answer this question, just know you won't be chosen as best answer...but feel free to say whatever you'd like
-Thanks very much Ok, for those who wanna go with the sunsign thing =) here are a few more details for you to go on
Him
Gemini sun
Virgo moon
Mercury Gemini
Mars Gemini
Venus Leo
Asc Virgo
Chinese sign: pig
Me
Cancer sun
Leo moon
Mercury Cancer
Mars Leo
Venus Leo
Asc Scorpio
Chinese sign: snake
my Sun trine his pluto
his venus square my pluto
My jupiter trine/conjunct not sure his sun
My Mercury conjunct his Sun
Our North nodes trined, many personal planets falling on each others' North nodes
My uranus trine his venus
My mars conjunct his venus
our venuses conjunct
We have the following mutual aspects with each other: Sun sextile moon, Moon sextile saturn, Moon trine neptune, Moon trine pluto
And in our composite chart the Sun is in Cancer and the Moon is in Pisces
woahhh super dreamy and sweet, huh?
In our natal charts, we have the following aspects in common: Sun opposite Neptune and Mercury opposite Uranus You have most planets situated in water signs and lack planets in mutable signs. Your friend has most planets in air signs and lacks planets in water (which you compensate). Also, he has most planets placed in mutable signs (which you lack) and which he compensates.
This means that you both bring each other in balance -- which is one of the basics of compatibility.
You are attracted to him (and vice versa) because you both have something the other hasn't. This is a very good indication of attraction and basic compatibility.
In the long run though, you both may find that what the other has in abundance, is actually quite boring too and even annoying. Your friend may find you overly emotional (you have too much water) then and you may find your friend too cerebral and superficial (too much air) and lacking compassion (a lack of water).
You both share some very powerful and lustful combinations: his Venus right on your Venus/Mars combo; his Pluto on your Sun/Venus midpoint) which makes for a sexual relationship.
You also share some extremely nice exact midpoint combinations (your Moon/Jupiter midpoint = his Ascendant; his Jupiter = your Mars/Jupiter and Jupiter/Pluto combo) which promote mutual accomplishments.
Another wonderful aspect is his Sun/Mars/Moon's Node on your Jupiter; a real indication of a profound friendship.
You also share a reciprocal Moon-Saturn aspect (which is still not always nice to have, even not when both reciprocal points build a harmonious aspect because the Moon and Saturn are opposites). Together with your Neptune on his Sun/Pluto midpoint and these reciprocal Moon-Saturn aspects there seem to be issues regarding the possibility to fully unfold. Especially your lover may find he cannot unfold himself enough with you.
Your friend lives with many insecurities and his affective needs are seldom satisfied.
Your friend is not the most mentally stable one and very dual with huge opposite desires and too spontaneous reactions (Moon conjunct his Ascendant). He's VERY sensitive to (female) beauty and while he can be very loyal, occasionally, he WILL melt for another charming beauty who enters his life... It's a common thing with his Venus position to have occasional affairs while keeping his lover/wife... No problem if you can live with that.
His Gemini stellium and Venus in Leo sextile his MC denote that he can be a real "storyteller." The Sun-Moon's Node conjunction opposite his Neptune may denote a world of broken dreams and dreams that are out of reach. This has nothing to do with your compatibility, but can be good to know if you want to proceed further with him and want to understand him better.
Additional info: Venus in Leo is one thing, but he also has Venus at his Mars/Neptune midpoint denoting secret affairs. Also, 10掳 Leo is a a quite "lustful" degree too. The reciprocal Moon-Saturn combinations are quite detached anyway and in the long run, this relationship may become rather frustrating an experience. I'm not sure if you will be able to hide you like him, because, well... Venus-Mars and the Pluto midpoint may be more than just... lustful. They may become an obsession LOL. I think you are in trouble here when you will see him more often LOL!!!
The stable emotional and nourished connections are all related to the harmonious Moon-Saturn aspects. I think it will be very difficult to get close emotionally with him under these reciprovcal Moon-Saturn combinations and his predominant air element! He will play with you, making you more confused and attracting you more and more. Well, haven't I told you, you're in real trouble when you are going to see him more??? LOL!!!!
BTW: you're less insecure than he is, you're much more determined
His insecurities may lead him to other partners indeed. Isn't a nervous smile often an indication of insecure feelings?
ADDITIONS DEC. 19: Your Mars conjuncts his Venus which indicates that you run into him. You're "going" after him. His predominant air element learns that he is more playful than you. He likes the way you are reacting to his behavior. Hmm, yes, he likes you, not to say he LOVES you though I believe LEFTIE pretty much said it. (!!) I will follow Speak_truth's advice, but at the same time I will take it sloooooooooooooooooow. Hahahahaha. And tread vvvvvveeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr... carefully. (Lmao.) And I will just be friends witth him, and my hopes won't be up very high at all Report It
That way I won't get disappointed. Report It
Cancer and Gemini aren't the greatest match. One is air the other, water and you're too emotional he's too detached and this could be a big big mess.
That's not to say it can't work out it's just not your typical match.
You're emotional, intuitive, depressive, family-oriented and social
and He's also social, but detached, indecisive, a party-goer, great dresser, humorous, funny, lots of fun and totally irresponsible.
That last trait may grate on your nerves more than not and your over-emotes and depressive nature will make him head for the hills.
But like I've said, it COULD work... Not a good match. He thinks and you feel. He will find you moody and you will find him flirty.
What he wants is a beautiful woman . Looks lie, yet glamour gets him. He may choose a partner more for good looks or popularity than for real compatibility on all levels.
Your chart with Moon in leo is exactly what he has ordered.I know you have good lucks or at the veryleast, a lot of CHARM.
As for you, The man who attracts you is one who radiates warmth and shows his affection in a physical way. One who does things in a big way, yet delicate. A man with an iron fist but in a velvet glove.
You're even more interested if he is rich or famous or powerful or gorgeous... and thus can reflect his glory onto you.
You may be particularly attracted to "the boss" or men who are "leaders" in some way.
One thing for sure, you both love the spotlight, both have strong affections, and loyalty for that matter. Sincerity isn't lacking either. On the other hand , you bothloved to be noticed, have admirers as we say.
But you,my lady, will suffer more than him if you become lovers. you are too sensitive.
As for you young lady, you have grace and style and wouldn't be surprise that your line of work demands this of you.
STAY AS FRIENDS. My lover is astrologer, he visit mother 2 week. He could tell you more, but I recall he say Sun sign not do anything in compatability, aspects of Venus and also some houses tell that. He Cancer near Leo, I middle of Gemini, we have great relationsship. He Monkey, I Pig. he say must know time, place born, you give that, so he could do horoscopes if here. I am a Psychic+astrologer+numerologist:
I won't misguide you.There are good reasons to believe that you have a magnetic personality that attracts the attention of others in any surrounding without any effort being put in by you.You are born lover.
The relationship with him has to be very sweet.He knows it and so do you.Both are very much involved for a deeper and lasting relationship.
You are ruled by Venus at mental plane.He is ruled my -ve moon.
Yours is stronger personality and his is very sensitive and emotional.He is sure to be loyal to you.He won't cheat you at all.
You love .........all things related to the field of ART......such as, poetry, music/songs,nature,anything that's clean and good looking, good and nice dresses....etc.....etc..
Here is the common factor.He is dreamer and also a lover at heart.He is not supposed to tell lies to please anyone.He is soft spoken lovely young man.
Go ahead with the present friendly relationship with him.Let him open his mind in words .He will do so soon.You are very young.You don't have to hurry.It's always difficult to find a real good friend and a good BF these days.This young man will not betray you.
Just go on smoothly as you have been doing so far.This relationship will not go in vain.It will flourish to an excellent one later on.OK? |
