Song from Bed of Roses?

What song is in the middle of the movie? It's not Jann Arden's song, It is a female group. Lyrics sounds like "I'll show you how to take me" I't is sung by a female.

Independent Love Song by Scarlet
#4 on soundtrack

Ice Cream by Sarah McLachlan
or
Independant Love Song by Scarlet

i can't remember, i need to see the film again