I am looking for a song's words... I don't know the name, but I know that the chorus is something like....

chorus:
and I'll be your crying shoulder
i'll be love suicide
and i'll be better when i'm older
i'll be the greatest fan of your life...

I'm pretty sure its ' I'll Be (Your Crying Shoulder) ' by Edwin McCain

Here's what you can do: type in four or five words that you know for sure into Google along with the word "lyrics". The complete song lyrics will probably be one of the first two results.

(I recognize the song but don't know it.)
(Use aidgle.com instead of google. It helps the needy.)

i'll be- edwin mccain

Thats Edwin McCain's song - I'll Be (Your Crying Shoulder).

I'll be by Edwin McCain...the best way to find the name of a song (provided you know some of the words) is to google it.